I don't want your wink...

 On many dating websites you can send notes or winks or whatever to let a person know that you are interested. However, when someone is not interested do you want to know? If you do want to know, how do you want them to tell you? Would you like them to say politely "I am not interested" or not say anything at all.

Though it stings when someone tells you that they are not interested, I feel that this is the best thing for someone to do. This makes it quite clear that the other person is not interested so you dont keep sending endless emails trying to convince them that you are the one for them. Sometimes its difficult for people to say that they are not interested as many dont want to hurt other people's feelings. But to make things clear, I think it is best for someone to tell you that they are not interested and move on. Keep things moving!